The Bearded Iris

A Recalcitrant Wife and Mother Tells All

Talkin’ Trash

Last Saturday my two oldest kids and I volunteered to participate in a neighborhood roadside cleanup party. I thought it would be a nice way to serve my community, spend some quality time with the kids, and get some fresh air.

We were told there would be garbage bags and orange vests. I was picturing us pretending to be a chain gang from Cool Hand Luke. This was going to be FUN!

Dear God, please don't let this be a glimpse of her future.

 

Just so you know, if anyone ever tells you they are bringing orange vests (plural) to an outdoor manual labor party, you should assume that they only have TWO of them. In other words, BYOV (bring your own vest) or wear brightly colored clothing just to be on the safe side. I learned this the hard way. I’m kind of trusting and/or a dumb ass like that.

Luckily I got there early and snagged the only two vests for my own children. Then another family with young kids showed up and my 11 year old future Saint, Nature Boy, offered his vest up to a 5 year old little girl. Whoever said “Chivalry is dead,” has obviously never met my Nature Boy. God, I love that kid.

My very pregnant good friend Mama Cloud and her two boys showed up too so I knew we were going to have a good time, with or without proper safety gear.

Turns out there is a reason most counties use convicted felons for this kind of work: it is really hard and extremely dangerous. We were handling all kinds of broken glass and rusty cans. We were in and out of thorny ditches that probably housed all sorts of venomous snakes and spiders. In fact come to think of it, this was the same road where I was bitten by that snapping turtle last year. Not one of my prouder moments. I’ll have to tell you that story sometime if I ever get over the PTSD.

But the most dangerous thing was the traffic. I can’t tell you how many cars went flying by us while we were out there picking up other people’s trash. Mama Cloud and I would holler and wave our arms and try to signal to the drivers to slow-the-f*ck-down, but most of them were so busy talking on their phones and/or applying makeup and/or doing the crossword puzzle and/or eating their breakfast burritos that they didn’t even notice us.

We were an inappropriately clad volunteer army of children, parents, senior citizens, and one pregnant woman. It is a miracle that nobody was hurt, or worse. The whole experience really infuriated me, actually. We don’t litter. Ever. I mean, who does that? And there we were, with our CHILDREN, picking up after assholes who just don’t give a hoot.

And we were picking up their Skoal canisters, cigarette butts, Bud Light cans, Seagram’s wine cooler bottles, and on one occasion, a used tampon applicator. Talk about trash.

That was our favorite find of the day… the used tampon applicator. Thank the Lord we were all wearing gloves. Can’t you just see someone cruising down the road, singing along with Wynona, texting her BFF, and changing her tampon at the same time? Then flinging the plastic applicator out the window along with a Mountain Dew bottle, some scratch off lotto tickets, and her kid’s empty Happy Meal bag. Yeah… her. To whom I’d just like to say: thanks lady… you provided me with lots of new conversation topics for my kids.

"Uh, Mom? What is this?"

So that was my first and (hopefully) last experience being part of an unpaid roadside chain gang. At the end of the day, we all felt really good about doing our part to Keep America Beautiful. I am really proud to live in a neighborhood where 17 people would take time out of their weekends to clean up a mess they certainly did not make. However… I can guaran-damn-tee you that I will not be taking my kids out there again, in harm’s way, to clean up after the litterbugs of the world. Just not worth the risk. We’ll have to find another way to save the earth.

You know what we need? We need more commercials like the crying Native American PSA from the 70s. Remember that one? I swear, between that guy and Woodsy the Owl, I definitely got the message as a kid that littering is just NOT okay. I guess we have bigger fish to fry these days, like fighting childhood obesity and keeping our kids off meth. But come on, guys… “give a hoot, don’t pollute. Don’t you be a dirty bird. In the city or in the woods, help keep America (bomp bomp) looking good!”

Tsk tsk,

-Iris

© Copyright 2011, The Bearded Iris.

10 Comments

  1. you’ve got to be kidding me, a plastic applicator?
    if you’re going to toss it out your window at least make sure it’s cardboard.

    • The Bearded Iris

      February 23, 2011 at 6:54 pm

      Oh no you di’int! Girl, you have to warn me before you say things like that. I just wasted a whole mouthful of Twisted Pig and burned my nose hairs.

  2. A few years back some Girl Scouts from our local council were doing that very same thing…. and I’m not sure if it was by the road or the canal (Erie Canal…. and yes it’s the “I got a mule n’ her name is Sal, 15 miles on the Erie Canal….” http://www.eriecanalvillage.net/pages/song.html )…
    anyhoot….. they found a dead body…. how nice is that for leavin’ trash? Yikes!!!

    Glad there were no nasty snakes or Iris-eating turtles this time…. Thanks for doin’ your part.

    Sue

  3. Let me just say something here about teaching the kids to do charity work. I feel a bit foolish that I have to tell you this now, and I hope it isn’t too late. OK, before they are old enough to transport themselves, which in this country means 16, charity begins at home. In other words, you teach them that Jesus loves them if they do your housework. Like that book, what is it called? I read it to Junior every day.

    I remember! ‘The Country Bunny and the Little Gold Shoes’

    That gal had about 20 children and she was a single mother and we have no idea who the father/s are. And boy was she awesome, or what? She trained those kids so that she could just kick back and drink chardonnay. Or in her case, become the Easter Bunny, or Hillary Clinton or whatever.

    I cannot believe that you spent the day picking up trash by the side of the road when you could have been watching Oprah while nature boy did the laundry. Sheesh!

    Now that Junior is 22, he is old enough to do charity work on his own. By the way, HE is my charity. So today — and this is completely true — I dropped him off at a homeless shelter so that he could do volunteer work all day while I went and had my nails done.

    Oh sister, I can so tell that you weren’t raised in the South.

    • The Bearded Iris

      February 23, 2011 at 8:51 pm

      Seriously girl, where have you been all my life. I hope it isn’t too late for me to teach them this valuable lesson. Must get that book. I have a special place in my heart for Chardonnay drinking single mothers.

  4. Mary the OINKteller

    February 25, 2011 at 8:12 pm

    Damn, girl, you are seriously funny! I actually SWLd (snorted-while-laughing) when I read your theory about the woman who threw her tampon applicator out her window. What a mental picture! You are doing great work- both with your blog and with your kids. I think about getting my kids involved with community service but so far nothing’s happened. I take that back. When my oldest son turned 7, I convinced him to forgo birthday presents and instead invite his guests to make a donation to a local charity. He wrote a letter, I wrote out a check, long story short: a woman (not me!) ended up in jail. I hung it up after that, but you’ve inspired me to put myself back out there. Look out Vermont non-profits! My family is here to help!

  5. First of all, i love you and your kids for doing this.
    Secondly, I direct traffic WITH blue lights and a popo car, a NEON vest, gun, arrest powers and a gold badge…and people will actually yell, give the finger, cuss and just assume run over a police officer than stop and wait their turn.
    Turdly, your kids would make kick-ass deputies “Explorers program” here for the Sheriff’s office….just sayin. We also have a Junior deputy program….i need sombody I can trust for back up one day.

    • OMG, PICK ME!!! PICK ME!!! I’m such a cop-wanna-be. I have to tell you how I single handedly brought down a woman in my neighborhood who was waking us all up honking every morning at 4:45 AM on her way to work, protesting our new stop signs. Me. Singlehandedly. With my surveillance. Dressed in black. Following her. I have issues.

  6. did you know that we have a “Citizens Police Academy”? OMFG…..
    I may have created a momster……..sweet!

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